It's been a year and I still feel heartbroken ALL THE TIME over a guy I never even dated?

why get heart broken so young? WAIT. enjoy your single life, you have the opportunity to get a job spend your money on you , no commitments, you have plenty of time to see how people really are, watch your friends, at 16 some one will be pregnant tomarrow, and that's one of your friends, now they gave up the enjoyment of being young, they lost it, all because of a guy, watch your friends , they have baby's and the guy leaves them the girl turns out to be a real bbbbt, they get married to young and get divorced and then the family hates them , their friends are against them , all because they started messing up their life to young, mess up your life when you get a little bit older, the first guy is never the last guy. does he have a job/ does he smoke? does he do drugs? does he drink like a fish like most guys at 18 to 29 is he going to get a car and smoke pot while driving and get caught and go to jail . its going to happen, its going to happen to many people you are going to watch, watch your friends , why dont you get a job then your going to go forward in life, make some thing of your self, take the pill. think about what you should do with your head, turn off your heart, its going to drag you down, you need to think about getting a job not a bf, we all need friends but to soon destroys your life, no matter how much you love them, guys are the equal to a girl 18 at about 27, you have so many mistakes to make,